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Abandon Your Friends is the third full-length audio CD by American screamo band, From Autumn to Ashes.

Released on August 30, 2005, it is the band's second album on Vagrant Records. The album shows a slight departure from their traditional sound. The CD has an increased focus on drummer/vocalist, Francis Mark; after the release of the album it was confirmed by the band (after Benjamin Perri had left) that this was due to Ben not contributing as much lyrically or vocally to the album as with previous efforts, and his discontent about being in the band at the time. The album lyrics were mainly written by the band without Benjamin Perri, which may explain why the lyrics have a different slant on them than previous FATA albums. Also contrary to their previous two albums, Melanie Wills of One True Thing is absent on this release.

It has also been said that Josh Eppard of Coheed and Cambria is responsible for naming the song "Placentapede". It was said that when at a festival with Coheed & Cambria, FATA planned to play the song live, and they didn't have a name for it because the album wasn't out yet and the song was still in its early stages. They went to Coheed and Cambria's bus and asked Josh what was the first thing that came to mind, and he responded with "Placentapede".Chris Harris, ,, July 13, 2005.

After the release of the album, From Autumn to Ashes recorded the video for "Where Do You Draw The Line."


* Francis Mark (drums, vocals)

* Brian Deneeve (guitar, piano, backing vocals)

* Benjamin Perri (vocals)

* Jon Cox (guitar)

* Josh Newton (bass, backing vocals)


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Artist/Band Information

From Autumn to Ashes was an American Melodic Hardcore band that formed in Long Island in 2000. While the band had gone through many line-up changes, the members include Francis Mark (lead vocals, drums), Scott Gross (guitar), Benjamin Perri (lead vocals), Brian Deneeve (guitars, backing vocals), Mike Pilato (bass, backing vocals), Rob Lauritsen (guitars), and Jeff Gretz (drums, backing vocals).

Described as "melody and lushness meets brutality," the band released their debut full-length album Too Bad You're Beautiful in 2000, spawning the fashioncore craze. The album featured former band member Benjamin Perri on screaming vocals, with Mark providing the clean vocals and acted as drummer. 2003 saw the release of The Fiction We Live and 2005, the release of Abandon Your Friends, the last From Autumn to Ashes album with Perri and Mark in their respective roles. After Perri's departure shortly after Abandon Your Friends, Mark became lead vocalist and in 2007, the band released Holding a Wolf by the Ears. On June 9, 2008 the band announced that they had gone on "indefinite hiatus." They insisted that the decision was amicable and the band had simply reached its natural conclusion.


Formation and Too Bad You're Beautiful (2000 - 2002)

From Autumn to Ashes formed on Long Island in 2000 with Francis Mark (drums, vocals), Brian Deneeve (guitar) and Benjamin Perri (vocals) — Perri provided screaming vocals, while Mark sung clean vocals. The group also employed a guitarist, Steve, when the project was "just to have a good time" and "wasn't serious." Commenting on the name of their band, Scott Gross (guitar), who joined the band later on, said, "you are absolutely not going to get the right answer on this one because that would pretty much end the band" and that "no one is going to know the reason and we are going to keep it that way." The term "Autumn" refers to both the season and a fictional character the band created. Mark and Gross planned to use the character in a book. For the first few months as a touring band, From Autumn to Ashes claimed to have sold half of their equipment, a car, and spent between $3,000 and $4,000 making demos and hand distributing them.

Gross and Mike Pilato (bass) joined the group as they attempted to find a record label, saying "we pretty much just sent packages to every record label, a shit load of phone calls harassing people." In 2001, From Autumn to Ashes performed in Long Island with Ferret Music bands Skycamefalling and Martyr AD, where the founder of Ferret Music, Carl Severson, attended. The following day, Severson contacted the group and they were soon signed in 2001. The band's debut full length album, Too Bad You're Beautiful, was released on August 14, 2001 with limited distribution. Too Bad You're Beautiful, which was written entirety about a relationship Perri had, sold 50,000 records in the United States, and thus, From Autumn to Ashes became the highest selling band on Ferret Records. It had also featured vocals on the song "Short Stories With Tragic Endings" from Melanie Wills of the band One True Thing. A reviewer on Punk News stated the album had the ability to "put you to sleep like a baby's lullaby, then smash you awake with the most gut wrenching, floor pounding hardcore this side of the Mississippi freakin' river." In 2000 under the music label Tribunal, the band released the Sin, Sorrow and Sadness EP on March 5, and later took part in the Warped Tour during the summer months. In 2002 the band employed a live drummer for a number of songs so that Mark could focus on songs that he did more vocals in.

The Fiction We Live (2003 - 2004)

In 2003, following speculation as to which label From Autumn to Ashes would release their next record, the band signed to Vagrant Records and enlisted Garth "GGGarth" Richardson as producer. After performing on the 2003 Warped Tour, they released their second full-length album, The Fiction We Live on September 9, 2003, which again featured vocals from Melanie Wills on the song "Autumn's Monologue". The album was described as more melodic in sound than Too Bad You're Beautiful, which had a more "hardcore sound." Perri explained that The Fiction We Lives songs had more structure than their debut release, and was the result of the band's time together. Aubin Paul of Punk News viewed the release as a growth from Too Bad You're Beautiful, writing that "like their previous , contains its share of PSAT words, and overtly maudlin pseudo-poetry, but it's still a big improvement". The move to a larger label and slightly more commercialized sound allowed the band to find more mainstream success, producing three singles, "The After Dinner Payback", "Lilacs & Lolita" and "Milligram Smile". The song "The After Dinner Payback" also appeared on the soundtrack for the horror film Freddy vs. Jason. For the following months, the group toured the country, also playing on the 2004 Warped Tour, during which time Josh Newton (bass) joined, as Pilato left along with Gross.

Abandon Your Friends (2005 - 2006)

On March 8, 2005, a re-release of Too Bad You're Beautiful was issued, featuring the songs from the Sin, Sorrow, and Sadness EP. Under direction of producer Richardson, From Autumn to Ashes' third full length album, Abandon Your Friends, was released on August 30, 2005. The album stemmed from the idea that " kind of...what we do. I mean, in the sense of how life goes on when we go away ." Abandon Your Friends met with speculation about the band's internal conflicts surrounding a potential break up. Perri had not been much involved in the process of creating the album and did not attend practice sessions, despite stating in interviews that the album was "a full on collaborative effort" and "We just all had a say in what we were writing." It was revealed in 2007, in interviews, and when Mark posted in the band's Myspace blog that he had ghostwritten Perri's lyrics in a matter of days. The band had made a further move away from the melodic sound of their past albums, and had been a point where the band shifted more focus to Mark's vocals. CMJ reviewer Tracey John explained that the album "continues to unabashedly straddle both ends of the hardcore/emo spectrum", however, the band "doesn't show much of a progression from 2003's The Fiction We Live." The album generally garnered reviews in which it was noted that, as a reviewer at Punk News explained that if you're a "fan of From Autumn to Ashes, you'll be disappointed." Abandon Your Friends produced one single, "Where Do You Draw The Line?" with an accompanying music video. Unhappy with inter-band politics, guitarist Jonathan Cox quit the band.

Holding a Wolf by the Ears (2007)

After taking a five month hiatus at the beginning of 2006, From Autumn to Ashes returned and played the length of the 2006 Vans Warped Tour, adding Rob Lauritsen in place of Cox. In September 2006, the band rented practice space and began writing material for what would become Holding a Wolf by the Ears. Brian McTernan was chosen as producer because he had previously worked with Mark and Newton on their side project Biology's album, and the members opted for this release to have a less refined feel than the last albums. As From Autumn to Ashes prepared to begin studio recording for the album, Mark noted that Perri "never came out to any of the practices and he had no involvement. But that was also the way it was when we wrote Abandon Your Friends." Perri had then declared that he would no longer be a part of the band. As Mark explains, "I thought there was a more considerate way he could have gone about leaving the band", but it was ultimately "cool of him to recognize that he just didn't have the passion for the band anymore." Deciding to move on without Perri as a member, Mark then became lead vocalist, providing both clean and screaming vocals in addition to his already recorded drums. Mark, as the band's lyricist explained that he "work very hard and writing and revising very personal lyrics" and found that a part of him did not want to hand over the lyrics to another to sing, however, with Perri's departure and when Mark began recording vocal tracks, "It immediately seemed like that’s the way things had been all along". Mark stated the bulk of the album's lyrics had been "just about living" and "the idea that extremes are dangerous." Recorded in about a month's time, Holding a Wolf by the Ears was named for the quotation by Thomas Jefferson, "But as it is, we have the wolf by the ear, and we can neither hold him, nor safely let him go. Justice is in one scale, and self-preservation in the other." Reviewer Drew Beringer of Absolute Punk had praised the change in the band's line up, stating that "Mark is three times the front man Perri was", and gave "passion that had been severely lacking while Perri was in the band."

In early 2007, the band began auditioning drummers to take Mark's place in the upcoming tours. Initially looking for a temporary member, From Autumn to Ashes would remain a quartet if they did not get along with the drummer. However, Jeff Gretz was officially added to the line-up and in March 2007, two weeks before From Autumn to Ashes began touring. The These Speakers Don't Always Tell the Truth EP was released on March 13, 2007 featuring songs from the forthcoming album and a previously unreleased track. Holding a Wolf By the Ears was released on April 9, 2007 as the last album for the band's contract to Vagrant Records, and according to Mark, is "heavier than anything we've ever done" and the "closest we've come to capturing how I think this band should sound." Reviewer Corey Apar of Allmusic noted that the band "sounds stronger than it has in awhile". Music videos for "Pioneers" and "Deth Kult Social Club" were filmed, the former based on The Lottery, a short story by Shirley Jackson, and the latter, a live video shot on Long Island as the end of February 2007. "Pioneers" was released as the first single from the album. In September 2007, Newton left the band and From Autumn to Ashes was joined by former bassist Pilato to take on Newton's place.

Live at Looney Tunes and indefinite hiatus (2008 - Present)

In January 2008 the band performed at the Looney Tunes store in New York. A recording of this show was released on Vagrant records on June 17, 2008. This album was From Autumn to Ashes' final release. A week before the live album came out, the band announced they were going to take an "indefinite hiatus." Lead singer Francis Mark commented on the break:

Mark and Lauritsen started the band Warship, which released one album and announced its break-up on their Myspace page December 30, 2009. After that Francis Mark formed the band Tidal Arms with old time friends Tom Tierney and Patrick Southern. Deneeve and Emanuel singer Matthew Breen came together to create the band Summer Law, which was disbanded after several months so that Deneeve could focus on attending culinary academy in hopes of becoming a Master Pastry Chef. Gretz announced his return to drumming for the band Zao and is a member of Emanuel and the Fear.

Musical style and influences

For his stylistic influences for playing drums, Mark references Stewart Copeland of The Police who he "always thought ... had a really good style", Neil Peart of Rush, John Bonham of Led Zeppelin, and Keith Moon of The Who. Following the release of The Fiction We Live, then screaming vocalist Perri explained that the lyrics he was writing for the forthcoming album (Abandon Your Friends) would feature lyrics that were inspired by Billy Joel, stating that they were "billyjoelesque" because "they’re more straightforward, not what I’m thinking, what I’m feeling, instead of poetry and shit". However, it is unclear whether the lyrics were used on the album, as was revealed by Mark in 2007, that Perri had not contributed to Abandon Your Friends and it was Mark who had ghostwritten the lyrics.

From Autumn to Ashes also combines genres as Mark has said, The combinations of genres allows them to tour with a variety of bands with different styles. They are able to "go on tour with Taking Back Sunday one month and go on tour with Shadows Fall the next month." Andrew Lawless of had written that the band was "eerily reminiscent of Iron Maiden."

Band members


* Francis Mark - lead vocals, piano, guitars, (2000–2008) drums (2000–2007) (now in "Tidal Arms")

* Brian Deneeve - guitars, backing vocals (2001–2008) (now in "Summer Law")

* Mike Pilato - bass, backing vocals (2000–2004; 2007–2008) (went back to college)

* Rob Lauritsen - guitars (2006–2008) (now in "Summer Law")

* Jeff Gretz - drums, vocals (2007–2008) (now in "Zao")


* Stephen Salvio - guitar (2000–2001) (now in "Burn The Sky")

* Scott Gross - guitar (2000–2004) (formed Lullaby The Storm and released the debut album on November 20th, 2009)

* Jonathan Cox - guitar (2005) (now in "The Jett Blackk Heart Attack")

* Benjamin Perri - lead vocals (2000–2006) (lives in Seattle, Washington and works as barman)

* Josh Newton - bass (2004–2007) (now in "Every Time I Die")


Studio albums



Additional songs

* "Territorial Pissings (live)" - Another Year On the Streets, Vol. 3

* "Betwixt Her Getaway Sticks" - Masters of Horror Soundtrack

* "Chloroform Perfume (Acoustic)" - Punk Goes Acoustic

* "Let's Have A War" - Tony Hawk's American Wasteland (soundtrack)

* "Inapprope" - Cry Wolf (soundtrack)

* "On The Offensive" - Saw IV (soundtrack)

* "Love It Or Left It" - ATV Offroad Fury 4 (soundtrack)

* "The After Dinner Payback" - Freddy Vs. Jason

* "Lilacs And Lolita" - American Chopper (Video Game)

Associated Acts





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